June 25, 2020

‘I’m so proud of myself’ – Robbie’s successful move into independent accommodation

For the parents of children with a disability, dreams of their son or daughter’s independence can be tenuous. So, it was no small celebration for Mandy and Tony when their son achieved his goal of moving out of home in March. 

Robbie, a Gateways Support Services participant of almost thirty years, moved into independent housing just prior to COVID-19 social distancing measures, and couldn’t be prouder of his milestone.  

Mandy says her son’s leap into independence has sparked joy in him. 

‘He’s gleaming. He’s just so proud,’ she says. ‘He said to me the other day, “I’m so proud of myself mum, I’ve always wanted to be independent.”  

She says Robbie’s move to Altona is the culmination of many years of skill development through Gateways Support Services (previously Interchange). 

‘Robbie’s benefits from Gateways have been huge.  He was a very timid young boy when he first started about the age of 9 or 10. Since then, his confidence has grown immensely,’ Mandy reflects. 

‘Gateways programs have also helped his confidence in using public transport by himself, as well as developing his social skills.’ 

Robbie has been a participant of Gateways Support Service’s social groups, including the Titan Men’s Group, Shakers, and Twilights, on a regular basis for many years.  

‘His favourite would be a few years ago when he got to go on the cruise ship from Sydney to Melbourne. He had the best time and has maintained some of those lovely friendships over the years,’ Mandy says. 

Gateway’s Assistant Recreation Coordinator, Wayne, who has worked with Robbie for many years, has also seen how the programs have helped him build his confidence.  

‘Robbie was a very shy, quiet young guy when he first started attending Gateways, however through participating in the Men’s group and other adult groups, Robbie has built wonderful friendships and is able to interact more with his peers,’ says Wayne. 

‘Gateways activities have also helped Robbie to build his independent living skills; learning how to purchase meals by himself, doing cooking activities, and skills that go along with that, such as cleaning and washing up. 

‘Likewise, using public transport to get to and from recreation activities has taught Robbie to travel independently, which he can now do competently,’ adds Wayne. 

Mandy says Robbie loves music and going to the movies, which he enjoyed doing with Gateways Support Services’ Recreation crew before the pandemic put things on hold. 

While he waits to return to his favourite pastimes, Robbie has been spending time with his care worker, Brendan, and continuing his work as a gardener.   

‘Robbie has developed the confidence to live independently over the years because he has been really well supported,’ Brendan says. 

‘He loves his work, he is a long–term and active Gateway’s participant, he has a community around him who adore him, and he has appropriately utilised the NDIS. 

‘But more than anything, his family are his biggest advocates and give him love and support that allows him to flourish.’  

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